When someone does not know Disc
it is bog standard easy to fall into simple traps. Until now.

How to make the 
							other person hate you.

Observing people easily causing hate is an Elevanto pastime.

And how they react when they hate the other person.

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Here are all sixteen patterns - all making simple misteaks.

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Conducted and composed by Elizabeth Hunter™ - Last Update 20 January, 2020


1. Can it be the Director - ESTJ?

The Director is the Border Collie

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just shoot down all the Director's ideas. And you will be hated.

The Director likes to bring you into the world that they have built by asking you to go to places they like and try things that they enjoy. The Director will quickly grow frustrated if you continuously refuse to let them show you things they love.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: "You are doing it all wrong."

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2. Can it be the Developer - ENTJ?

The Developer is the German Shepherd

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just be a bully towards the Developer. And you will be hated.

The Developer is the bully and does not like being usurped in this role. They are unlikely to waste time getting into a conflict if they could just ignore you, but they will immediately stop ignoring you if they think you are a bully to those that are weak. This is hypoctitical, part of their modus operandi. This does not stem from a desire to have control over people themselves, but more that if there is one thing this type does not like it is people being unkind to others they view as being unable to handle it. Unless they are doing it themselves.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: "Okay. Stop speaking. You're done."

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3. Can it be the Results - ESTP?

The Results is the Jack Russell Terrier

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just make the Results feel trapped. And you will be hated.

The Results like to feel like masters of their own destiny and they will begin to resent you rather quickly if you try to take that away from them. It is doubly interesting then that this pattern often attracts smothering personality types, only to have to free themselves when they realize what has happened.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: "Yes. I'm out of here."

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4. Can it be the Inspirational - ENTP?

The Inspirational is the Bull Terrier

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just belittle the Inspirational. And you will be hated.

The Inspirational hates being talked down to more than any other pattern. This is because while they typically have high self-esteem, it is usually mixed with a lot of self-doubt. This means that they will react to being made to feel small by reacting based off not only their wounded pride, but also their reinforced feelings of inadequacy.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: Nods and smiles until the other person goes away, internally not approving of anything they are saying.

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5. Can it be the Persuader - ENFJ?

The Persuader is the Boxer

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just be a fake in the eyes of the Persuader. And you will be hated.

The Persuader can sense when someone is fake almost immediately and they will be even angrier with you if it takes them even a little while to recognise it. In addition, once they find someone who is fake they will use their natural charm to make sure that everyone else knows your true nature, in order to make sure that you cannot make anyone else feel the way that they felt.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: Searches in vain for the other person's good qualities.

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6. Can it be the Appraiser - ESFJ

The Appraiser is the Great Dane

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just micromanage the Appraiser. And you will be hated.

The Appraiser is generally relaxed, so the fastest way to make them hate you is to take over their schedule to pack it full. This does not mean they do not enjoy regular activities, just that if you try to make them break up their calendar into half hour blocks they will begin to resent you.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: "Um, the think you said is really not right, sorry."

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7. Can it be the Promoter - ENFP?

The Promoter is the Golden Retriever

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just take the Promoter for granted. And you will be hated.

The Promoter is a natural people pleaser, but they have to know that all their hard work has some affect on you. You do not have to throw them a parade, they just want you to occasionally thank them for everything they do, and let them know that it is important to you. This can be a challenge due to their constant unreliability.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: Makes subtle snide comment then makes totally unsubtle rude comment when the other person moves away.

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8. Can it be the Counselor - ESFP

The Counselor is the Poodle

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just be codependent on the Counselor. And you will be hated.

There is no quicker way to make a Counselor hate you than to immediately force yourself to be the most important person in their life. Cutting them off from their abilities to feel independent and have friends outside of each other will make them attempt to avoid you as soon and as much as possible.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: "I've got to go. I have plans with that girl. Didn't I tell you that earlier? Oops. Bye!"

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9. Can it be the Specialist - ISFP

The Specialist is the Saint Bernard

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just be dismissive of the Specialist. And you will be hated.

The Specialist is naturally excited about the things and people they love, though it is often hard for them to express it the way they want it. In other words, the fastest way to get them to hate you is to wait until they finally work up the courage to explain how they feel about something or someone and then tell them you think that thing or person is lame.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: Silence.

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10. Can it be the Investigator - INFJ?

The Investigator is the Greyhound

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just make the Investigator feel like they can never be good enough. And you will be hated.

This is one of the main stress factors that The Investigator puts put on themselves, so they do not need it from the outside world. This is particularly true if they look up to you, as this naturally sensitive type will take it very hard.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: Says nothing in the moment but discusses the other person with a trusted friend later.

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11. Can it be the Agent - INFP?

The Agent is the Tibetan Terrier

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just a stick-in-the-mud in the Agent's eyes. And you will be hated.

This is doubly true if you attempt to inflict your stubborn judgments onto other people. The Agent is a born bohemian and does not take kindly to people trying to ruin their latest spontaneous idea. This does not mean they will not listen to sense, only that they will know and dislike it if you try to get them to not do something just because it does not mesh with your ideas. There will always be issues.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: "Please leave."

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12. Can it be the Achiever - ISTP?

The Achiever is the Bassett Hound

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just force the Achieret to be "normal". And you will be hated.

The Achiever likes to live their life the way they wish, even if that is contrary to what society wants for them. The fastest way to make them hate you is to present the world to them as strictly black and white, even if you say they are on the “good side”.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: Provides layers and layers of ironic insults and sees how obvious they can get without the other person noticing.

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13. Can it be the Practitioner - ISFJ?

The Practitioner is the Alaskan Malamute

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just be flaky to the Practitioner. And you will be hated.

One of the most important qualities to a Practitioner is that they can rely on someone. This is especially because they often do not feel that they can rely on themselves and their own judgment and look to others to help guide them. Proving yourself to be unreliable will see you excommunicated from this patterns inner circle.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: Sighs a lot.

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14. Can it be the Objective Thinker - ISTJ?

The Objective Thinker is the Bernese Mountain Dog

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just make everything into a grand spectacle for the OT. And you will be hated.

The OT is naturally shy and they put stock into doing things the right, humble way. This does not mean they do not want acknowledgment for the things they do, merely that they will not appreciate it if your praise feels like an empty yet ostentatious display of your own abilities.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: Moves away.

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15. Can it be the Perfectionist - INTP?

The Perfectionist is the Papillon

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just do not listen to the Perfectionist. And you will be hated.

The Perfectionist is the natural 'professor' and this means that they will have topics or stories that they feel like they need people to know. This does not mean they need rapt attention and perfect silence all the time, just that you do not pick up your phone while your eyes glaze over the minute they start talking.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: Shuffles their feet.

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16. Can it be the Enhancer - INTJ?

The Enhancer is the Afghan Hound

Causing hate - the easy way:

Just give the appearance to the Enhancer that you are easily swayed. And you will be hated.

The Enhancer sees the world mostly in black and white and dislikes people who cannot take a stand even on the most basic issues. They respect people who show the courage of their convictions but it must always be based on undisputed facts. If they see you as being weak-minded they will never rely on you and will almost certainly have a negative view of you. They are the loners, after all.

Why not make the effort to pick their pattern and avoid this?

Your reaction when you hate the other person: "Goodbye."

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